The Roster

Hello Everyone,

I guess I should run down the roster so we all know we the "players" are obviously the names have been changed to protect their identities.

MJ aka TheEX
We have known each other since high school and dated on and off.Basically he was my 1st EVERYTHING. We break up and time passes and we run into each other and the cycle continues.But the past year or so we REALLY broke up no communication no anything. It basically was I found out that he was cheating with other girls and I sent him a message via FB(facebook) S/N:Facebook has all the ingredients to ruin a relationship so proceed with caution.....anyways......and he responded to the message basically saying we needed to break up because of a lot of reasons besides the obvious..he never even mentioned the cheating and we stopped talking...fast forward to about a month ago he called out of the blue by this time he has moved down south and started a business and is doing quite well for himself.I know what u are thinking here we go again but by this time I havehad time to grow and mature and date other people so I learned alot about myself and have wayyyyyyyyyy more confidence then when we were dating.So he basically says he misses me and realizes that no girl has ever had his back the way I did and I am so happy to hear from him because I truly feel in my heart that we were made for each other and no one has made me feel the way he did. But in the back of my mind I cant help but wonder about all the cheating and simply it was the Elephant in the room..........well u guys HE finally addressed now I wont tell exactly what was said but basically he poured his heart out and admitted his wrongdoings and apologized and he even shed tears(I Love a man who isnt afrraid to show his emotions) and he came too visit a couple of weeks later and apologized in person and and again he said he wanted to move on and start something new 2gether but he wanted to address what he called the rhino in the room and I can respect that and right now we are friends and getting to know the new and improved verions of ourselves and so far so good.....thoughts anyone? Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person truly change?

Tomorrow....Meet the rest of the team :)

Allow Me to Introduce Myself

Hello world,

I finally gave in and decided that I have way too many life experiences to keep the lessons learned from them to myself. So let me introduce myself..I am 26 years old and I currently reside in Detroit(waits for comments about all the crime,drugs,and crooked political structure) now if u're done I will continue. I am currently pursuing my degree in computer engineering(yeah I'm nerdy but if u knew me in real life u would never guess it)I am currently single but in the process of getting back with my ex-boyfriend but more on that later..the past year has been crazy relationship-wise....where should I start?...................hmmm.......I'll start tomorrow because I need to call TheEX...is it weird that we talk everyday about how much we love each other and cant wait to spend our lives together even though he lives in another state? Even weirder is the fact that although we have no committment to each other I feel guilty hanging with other guys whats that about?

Question: Should I feel guilty? and can you reallly make a long-distance relationship work? If so How?thoughts?....till tomorrow